“Kimberly Harrington is back with another honest, tender, and often hilarious book on the end of a modern marriage. No matter your relationship status, But You Seemed So Happy begs the question — what are we all doing here? I laughed, I cried, I found myself in the pages over and over again.”
— Kate Baer, New York Times bestselling author of WHAT KIND OF WOMAN
“Intimate and raw yet meticulously scrubbed of the slightest tinge of self-pity. Harrington explores the pain and intricacies of a marriage and its dissolution with a ruthless, unflinching honesty and gallows humor that makes you feel like you buried a body with her. Did you? Maybe you did.”
—Emily Flake, cartoonist for The New Yorker and author of THAT WAS AWKWARD: THE ART AND ETIQUETTE OF THE AWKWARD HUG
“Thought-provoking and memorable. Amateur Hour…will stay with you for a long, long time.”
—The New York Times Book Review
"Amateur Hour careens from the hilarious to the poignant, eliciting nods of recognition, fists of outrage and many moments of bemusement and reflection. If your throat isn’t constricted, heart not cracked by the end of it, you may consider checking if you have a pulse."
— Associated Press
"This funny, angry, and moving essay collection from Harrington considers life for women dealing with motherhood, work, marriage, self-image, expectations, ambition, fatigue, and everything else. All of the topics covered are familiar, but Harrington’s approach to them is singular."
— Publishers Weekly
"Selling this book as a book about motherhood would sell it short. Rather, it is a meditation on a full, beautiful, and messy life. No piece in this collection of short vignettes is much like another. Chapters will make readers rotate through laughter, tears, and cringing, and are all written with refreshingly honest and bold abandon."
— Booklist
"More concerned with brutal honesty than keeping up appearances, [Harrington] bares all in frank prose covering everything from senior pictures to her deep-seated desire for more family fights—and isn’t afraid to dish it out, either."
— Ms. Magazine
Reviews and Mentions
Somehow this ding dong’s work has been reviewed or featured in The New York Times Book Review, The Cut, The New Yorker, Ms. Magazine, Associated Press, and A Cup of Jo, among others. Here’s a grab bag:
2021 Vermont Book Award Finalists Announced
The New Yorker: The Most Popular Shouts of 2021
Shelf Awareness: Review of But You Seemed So Happy
Best New Under-the-Radar Books Coming Out This Fall
Publishers Weekly: Review of But You Seemed So Happy
The New Yorker: Not-to-Be-Missed Shouts of 2018
Ms. Magazine: Eight Feminist Reads for Mother's Day
The Cut: So You Want to Read About Having a Baby
The New York Times: The Hand That Rocks and Rules
Associated Press: "New book offers hilarious and poignant take on motherhood"
Publishers Weekly: Review of Amateur Hour
Interviews and Chit Chat
With a bold assist from Xanax and some 2-to-1 breathing, I’ve been interviewed on the TV, the internet, the radio, and even in print including CNN Headline News, PBS NewsHour, Vermont Public Radio, Radio New Zealand, Salon, and Folha de S. Paulo. A selection:
Everything is Fine podcast with Kim France and Jennifer Romolini: Rethinking Divorce
“Kimberly Harrington Takes on Marriage and Divorce in Her Latest Memoir” in Seven Days
KATU: "But You Seemed So Happy: A Marriage, In Pieces and Bits" Author Kimberly Harrington
PBS NewsHour: Should parents lower the bar while working from home?
Vermont Public Radio: How to Have a Good Divorce
Radio New Zealand: Afternoons with Jesse Mulligan Interview
KATU Portland: Appearance on Afternoon Live with Tra’Renee Chambers
Salon interview: Why having kids is like going through puberty: "I really feel like I regressed"